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Post by Confused on May 9, 2005 8:09:07 GMT -5
I need some advice. I have a boyfriend, but I am not sure if I feel the same way about him as I did when we first started going out. I am really confused and would like your advice on what to do.
You can email me at rubber_ducky001@excite.com
Thanks,
Samantha
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Post by && We Will Become Silhouettes on May 9, 2005 14:55:13 GMT -5
well Do you have any idea why you may feel different?
I mean has he gotten farther away from you? can you not connect with him the way you used to?
are you feeling a connection with somebody else?
(I would email you but my computer is being retarded)
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Post by Samantha on May 9, 2005 17:57:55 GMT -5
I have no idea why I feel different. I just..I don't think i feel the same way as I did when we started going out. I mean we started going out in December and we broke up, but we got back together not long after that...but during that time, I had kind of, sort of, in a way gone out with another friend of mine who, at the time I didn't know this, was a friend of his, but that didn't last. And then my boyfriend and I started going out again, or at least talking about going back out, and I started talking to one of his friends. I think his friend likes me. Actually I am sure his friend likes me. But anyway, his friend started talking to me, but then my boyfriend and I got back together. And even though my boyfriend and I got back together, I still think his friend likes me. I think I might have feelings for his friend, but his friend won't make any moves, except telling me that I look nice pretty much everytime we see one another.
I honestly do not know what to do. I mean my boyfriend and I talked about the risks and everything of getting back together and all, but it never even crossed my mind that this might happen. I do love my boyfriend, honestly I do, and I will Always love him, I'm just not sure it's going to work, and I don't know how to bring up the subject. I have never been good with breaking up with people and I don't really want to break up with him because I know he has feelings for me even if he doesn't tell me he loves me. We have had some very deep conversations and we know a lot about each others past but there are still some things I think he is not telling me, and I know there are some things I am not telling him. But I feel we will tell them when we are ready. But I could really use some advice on what to do about the whole friend deal and how to figure out whether or not I should break it off with my boyfriend.
Samantha
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Post by Little Miss Vampiress on May 9, 2005 18:17:11 GMT -5
hey Samantha, (can i call you Sam?)
You say your boyfriend's friend likes you? or you think he likes you?....Does your boyfriend know that his friend likes you? if he has, what has he said about it?
you can email me at: raven_nicolette_marchand@yahoo.com if you want to talk outside the boards.
<3, Nikki
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Post by && We Will Become Silhouettes on May 9, 2005 19:27:29 GMT -5
This is hard. I mean you still love your boyfriend, and he loves you. There's another guy in your life who you may be interested in and he's definitely interested in you. I mean I believe in taking as many opportunities as possible and so I mean if you didn't feel very much for your boyfriend then I would say go for the other guy. but you still have feelings for you boyfriend even if they have changed. but you see in relationships things do change.
So maybe you two are just going into the next phase of your relationship. Now if you don't agree don't listen to what I say but I think you should continue going with your boyfriend now. If something happens and you two are a couple anymore then that happens. and if this guy really does like you he will continue waiting.
but yeah, stay with your boyfriend you guys sound like you're doing well even if you feel different. Now if you get to the point where you feel different as in you don't want to be with him anymore don't let your nervousness get in the way. when it has to end, it has to end. Just be gentle and straight.
I hope I've been some help. and I hope things work out. Good Luck Samantha.
Erin
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Post by Little Miss Vampiress on May 9, 2005 20:28:46 GMT -5
I totally agree with Erin....
Nikki
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Post by Pay No Mind on May 9, 2005 20:59:10 GMT -5
Go with Erin on this one...Even thou I have no idea what she said..or you said for that matter...I can't read all that right now....I just woke up...
Besides...this is not my area....
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Post by && We Will Become Silhouettes on May 9, 2005 21:04:03 GMT -5
that was funny....
glad to know you trust what I say.. haha....
I mean I coulda been like go out get pregnant do some drugs and live it up...
I didn't...
but I could have...
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Post by Pay No Mind on May 9, 2005 21:05:55 GMT -5
That sounds like something I Travis would say...
If I had read it I still don't know what to tell the girl....
People tell me I have good advice but.....I've never had a boyfriend....
I try...
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Post by Samantha on May 10, 2005 7:44:12 GMT -5
Hey Guys. Thanks for the advice. I will try it. Hopefully everything will work out for the better. I hope it does. I honestly do not know if I can handle our relationship not working out. Thanks again.
Samantha
P.S. Nikki, you can call me Sam if you would like to. It really doesn't matter to me, just as long as you do not call me Sammy. Peace.
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Post by Little Miss Vampiress on May 10, 2005 7:46:41 GMT -5
lol...okay then.....I hope everything works out between you and you boyfriend.
Nikki
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Post by Pay No Mind on May 10, 2005 14:08:26 GMT -5
Good Luck Samantha..
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Post by && We Will Become Silhouettes on May 10, 2005 14:14:14 GMT -5
Bon Courage!
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Post by Samantha on May 11, 2005 8:09:24 GMT -5
Thanks.
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Post by && We Will Become Silhouettes on May 11, 2005 13:53:16 GMT -5
no thank you...
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